Purdy, maybe your just not looking in the right places!!! You strike me as quite a lovely person, a person who deserves happiness. All good things come to those that wait... maybe your just fussy? You will find the right person I am sure, soon enough, and especially now you have some support, you might get a bit more courage to delve into speed dating, or something interesting like that maybe....

It will come... and you do deserve it. Don't let your brain tell you otherwise please.