Hi

I have a 14 & 9yr stepdaughters ( we have them on the weekend) & we have a 3 yr.

The youngest 2 don't really notice. Dad is just Dad but sometimes he's grumpy.

I'm not sure what the oldest girl has disscussed with her Dad. She knows that Dad was in an accident & he hasn't been the same since.

I have spoken to her and told her that her Dad will tell her what he feels comfortable to tell her. I have also told her that I am seeing a doc to help me work through the changes that have happened to her Dad.

I also told her if she EVER feels that she needs someone to talk to about how she feels about seeing what has happened to her Dad that she should see her school counsellor or ask me to help her find someone she can talk to.

I just hope it helps.

Jods