I agree. It sounds like to me that if it was just that you thought about sex too much around your therapist, then that is more of an issue of your therapists. There are plenty of people who get addicted to sex and go to therapy, they don't get shafted. I bet they talk about sex a lot. And there's plenty of people who develop intense crushes on their therapists too, and they don't get chucked out, unless a boundary is crossed.

Remember, often therapists go into their job because they themselves have experience in difficult issues. Just speculation, but maybe your therapist had the problem here with something relating to her past, rather than directly to you. Additionally, if a therapist feels that their feelings and their "stuff" is getting too involved then that would be seen as not a good thing for a therepeautic relationship. Hell, she may have even had feelings for you!

Try not to make assumptions... the bottom line is if she ditched you and didn't even talk to you about it, then what sort of therapist is that? A very badly handled situation there. Trust me, therapists who handle situations badly are likely to be bad therapists. I had one, and am suffering the consequences 6 years later still.

It sounds to me that I have no reason to think that you are some sort of threat. I take people at face value, and until I am given reason to worry, I don't. I am someone affected by sexual abuse, and I'm still not about to 'jump on the bandwagon' just because someone else suggests something about you. And I don't do that because not all men are rapists, molesters, child abusers, wife beaters.

Just so you know!