Hello Rob, yes I do believe about 99% are good and 1% bad. In fact the 2 friends of mine that have been central to my healing are blokes! None of my female friends have been as good as understanding.

I wanted to say yes it appears your therapist and her group handled your situation poorly and its going to be difficult for you with a new therapist however, if its because she didn't have the skills or wish to help you then that's got to be good, hasn't it? Maybe she's done you a favour? Dont dwell on the handling of the situation, I understand you feel wronged but that's their issue.

If the end result is you progress more with someone else then as much as its difficult to change, you've got to go for it. Dont waste your energy on what has happened with the old one, put all your energy into you and getting yourself healed with the help of the new therapist.