Hey Bazza,

Welcome. I remember hearing of that incident in stunned disbelief that something could happen like that here. There are no words that could probably describe the terror that you must have felt at 10 years of age. I am glad for you and your family that you have found your way here. I hope that this forum will allow you to vent and to help you heal. Please let your wife know that this site exists for spouses too! I would be more than happy to speak with her. Take care.