by the way Vcc, I guess I am lucky, my husband and I are totally in love, passionate love after 10 years and 2 kids. We don't always love each other but we always come back to it. We have always been that way though we knew on our first date that we would get married, after 2 months we were engaged, after 3 months we were pregnant (oop!) but we got married after our first was born. It has it's ups and downs (marriage) but we always love each other and the sex is still hot!