Thanks veiled, I don't see me leaving my therapist, I can't see a woman therp. there is a huge trust issue there, I am not to the point of trusting another woman with that much. It is a form of father transferance, it doesn't just happen with him it happens with any man that has power over me in some way, my boss, pastor, etc...I have to figure this one out, it is very wierd. I have been with my therp. for a year now, we have done way too much work to give up on it. Thanks for the advice though, I will keep it in my back pocket.

Monica