LOL I don't think I've ever been called a hamburger... maybe that's what I should draw for my next avatar.

Okay seriously I have a question though. Assuming I did want to take revenge on the person who traumatized me - being my father - how would I go about doing so, considering he's deceased? I mean I suppose I could go piss on his grave or something, but I doubt that would make any difference to him seeing as he's already dead and won't feel it. It would be kind of silly, don't think it would give me any relief in the long term. This sounds lame but since I started working on myself, I think the best "revenge" is trying to heal and live my life well, and make life better for the people around me, my family, friends, and any future spouse or children I may have. I can't fix the whole world but I can try to make my small part of it a little better. I don't have to be consumed by resentment over what my father did. If I was then really he's winning and still has control over my life.