I don't think about revenge at all as an answer, I try to live in peace now. Sure I have anger issues too and I put on my "I don't give a shit" face to people sometimes but intentionally hurting someone is not my game. You are just feeding the fire if you take the revenge route. Your mother or father abused you, you get revenge and abuse them, you get thrown in jail they win, somehow that doesn't seem very intelligent. As for Anthony, he doesn't bullshit around it is good to get straight answers from someone, all to often therapist don't do that so it is good to hear it from someone like us, same with veiled and everyone else here, someone will call your bullshit.