Burn, we all suffer the same, we all go through the same aspects in relation to exposing our trauma, hence why we all have PTSD to begin with, because we all locked it up and thought we could deal with it by ourselves. Only you can make the choice to help yourself, and that simply means exposing the truth about yourself and don't think for others, allow them to make their own decisions. We all do bad things... and these are what we learn from, they are not necessarily a true reflection off our current selves.