Thanks also RoadKing. I actually think my husband's trying to understand me better. He has a hard time expressing his thoughts & feelings & has a difficult time understanding mine. But, he's been leaving a journal with a posed question on it for me to answer (i.e., what are your goals & dreams or what makes me happy, etc.) & I fill it out & leave it on the table for him. He's been reading it & discussing things after he's had chance to absorb the information.

I hope this helps & I hope we can work on our issues because I don't want to get another divorce but, I will have to do what I have to do & at least I have a plan now in case things don't work out!