Hey anthony. I guess i know what you're pointing at, when you say "don't think for others". I generalise from 2 people on everyone, that's not necessarily correct.
Well, it's hard to speak about my problems ... the only people that i trust, have experienced similar things and seem to know how it is when i don't feel, the others go through a process: they don't understand and think that i just need to go out more (that's surely a good thing, but that's what i do), then it gets to a point where they ask how i feel now with them (they say it's nice, i say something like: i guess yes, i don't know.) and that seems too hurt them (what i understand), finally they seem to understand something.
But hey maybe i am wrong, and just fooling myself.