I told my husband a little about my trauma's but I couldn't look at him when I did, it was really hard. He understands a little more why I am the way I am at this point. He doesn't know everything and probably never will, I didn't go into detail I just told him very high level stuff like: ok honey, I was raped when I was 16, it was very violent, I don't like doing certain things because of that. Nothing detailed, he wouldn't want to know that anyway but at least he knows something and that helps.