Thanks Anthony.
I'm slowly retraining myself, baby steps on my part but I think once I get into the swing of things I'll be a lot more user friendly. If those around me outside my 4 walls have a problem with my new "attitude" then they can join the list of others that I have limited contact with. I'm over what other people think of me & what they think is what is best for me. As my wise husband would say, walk a mile in my shoes, then you can tell me what to do.