Thanks for the advise BG. I really feel bad. He went through a horrible breakup with his last girlfriend about 2 years ago and was totally devastated. He felt that this could be the one, however they had a fight and he cut off the relationship last Tuesday. She died Thursday, she had a seizure and drowned in the bathtub. Her mom called him Friday morning to let him know. The little one is with his biological father now in Wisconsin. He is carrying so much guilt, he feels like it is his fault for upsetting her. I wish he could come here for a bit.