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Originally Posted by EastCoastFog I have not heard back from her and at this point, I think I should leave it up to her. I don't want to push her and I don't think it's appropriate to just show up at her house. |
And that would be your mistake now if she does have PTSD. She will not pickup the phone to call because her anxiety will be overpowering her, she will not come back, because her anxiety will be overpowering her, she will not do anything, except rather wait for you to make one last move.
You need to understand that PTSD and the withdrawals it imposes upon us, are not something we control well, and we will not go out of our way to get back something even if we love it. I was just saying this to a mate last night in discussion, in that even though two people with PTSD can mutually just get along because they both understand, neither will pickup the phone to contact one another easily, nor when it comes to meeting, boths anxiety will be running a little rampant until actually feeling comfortable with one another.
Your girlfriend will not move, trust me on this. If you want one last shot at it, you need to go to her, talk from the heart, fight a little for her, and if she still rejects, then cut your loss, as hard as that is.
Just take my word on this, you have about a 5% chance of her actually making contact with you if she has PTSD in full flight, or growing at a rapid rate.