I remember sitting in IOP(Intensive Outpatient Therapy), there was a woman who was tightly wound, speaking like I do (a whole lot at once and not able to keep on one topic), and she let slip that her husband was actively molesting her 2 sons. Then she told the group they were divorced, he had custody, and she promised not to tell If he promised not to do it anymore. Then she couldn't understand why 4 members of the group started lashing out at her. It got really ugly.
I read your post a couple of days ago and felt for you, and I want to tell you I admire your strength to be able to save your child.

God Bless!
Tiana