Well, I did my share of drugs when I was younger but once I had kids that are went "bye bye" and I haven't touched the stuff since. However, my brother in-law and his girlfriend came over a couple of weeks ago and brought their kids with that are 8 and 5. They both looked horrible, missing teeth, terrible skin, just that dreadful looking Meth look. My husbands brother must have gone in the bathroom 10 times in the 2 hours they were here. He has a new car and no real job to speak of and I just don't like the whole scene. Both of their kids were dressed in crap and didn't even have shoes on their feet and they smelled. Their son looked in our refrigerator and exclaimed " look at all the food, wow!" It hurts me that they are probably doing Meth and selling drugs and not taking care of of kids. So do I call child protection services on their ass or not? I don't want to kids in foster care either, it is not the best environment. We have room to take them in here but can I handle 2 more kids. The son is a year younger than ours, he is actually a pretty nice boy but his sense of self is already warped and he talks just like his dad, running his mouth about how he is going to have an escalade and a big house when he grows up and he ain't gonna work", always putting down women, stuff like that. He is well behaved though for fear of getting beat. their little girl is 5 and doesn't talk and is severly overweight, she weighs like 80 lbs. and can barely walk. I believe she is mentally retarded and they just are ignoring it, her mom was on drugs the entire pregnancy. I am just sad about it and don't know what to do, I hate it for them and the kids. We have tried to help in the past and it didn't work, it almost got my husband arrested so we quit helping them now it is just bad.
They were both eyeing our new house and new things though, they kept saying " how did you get such a nice house?", Well, we both work that is how and we value our lives and we want what is best for our kids".
:crybaby: I am afraid of what is going to happen.

Monica