I totally know what to do, it will be anonymous though, I don't want to stir the family shit. There is noone but us in a position to help, his sister and his other brother are no better, they are all drunks and 2 of our nephews have already been in jail before the age of 16. I swear my husband is the only ambitious one in that family, it is sad. We told our oldest nephew Josh that he could live with us if he went to college, rent free, we would help him out, we have more than enough room in our house. Then he got in trouble, he molested his own sister and we can't have someone like that in our house, not around our kids. The therpists say that kids that engage in incest are the least likely to re-offend, it is more of a acting out at their parents thing, but I don't give a shit I can't be afraid of someone that lives in my house. So he is out on his own and not going to school, it is too bad, he was a really smart boy. His parents screwed him up though, the drinking and beating each other up, having the cops at the house, living in a shit hole and never having anything. It is too bad what parents do to their kids, sad really.