I agree with WH and CJ to a point. If this could be handled internally with family, wonderful. But...there is a large difference between someone who smokes pot and a meth addict. There is also a difference when the kids are filthy and hungry, pot heads don't neglect their children as a rule. I would not waste my breath on telling a meth head to straighten out, they generally can't without therapy/outside help. I still say, help the kids in what ever way necessary and I would never mind my own business when it came to a child in my extended family being neglected/abused, that is when bad things happen, it is your business.