I am posting this to notify members as to why you may be curious to see "moderated member" below users "Marilyn S." and her partner "Waynes". The simple reason is because Marilyn breached privacy by allowing her partner to post a response in a private area he should not have been. She did allow it, have no doubt, hence why both have been placed into moderation and both users have lost all access to any private areas, chat, privileges etc.

Any posts either user desire to make will now be placed through moderation.

I will not tolerate any user breaching the very privacy that is entrusted within them. This is a clear example of that, and both users are actually quite lucky to not be banned permanently.

How did it come about? Easy. I pushed at Marilyn, as I do, to get her to look deeper inside herself. My pushing upset her, and instead of her responding solely, she responded then gave her partner access under her username to then reply and add his two cents. The conversation was nothing, its the breach off privacy that has forced me to make the decision at hand.

I WILL NOT tolerate any member breaching privacy... EVER.