Actually bec that totally makes sense to me, now that you explain it. You have everything out of the way now, as you say. Plus this might sound weird but personally if I get bad news or someone says something bad to me in my personal space, I feel like that space is somehow tainted or violated and it needs to be cleansed! So in your position I think my residence would feel yucky to me, not as safe anymore, and I'd be happy to move. I know that sounds dumb maybe but it's really strong feeling for me sometimes.

Anyways glad you are handling everything as well as you are. And I am so very glad you are moving. I think you're going to be so much happier.