Ok, before I post a nice message waynes sent me, which he claimed I could post in public, so he has given his authorization as I see it... I will answer this quickly. Veiled pretty much said it, simply put: Public area: you can post and refer anything, anyone says to another post or thread, no issues, no limitations within this forum, as the information is public. PSTD Only / Carers Only: should only be posted or referred within those specific hidden areas, being if you have access to the PTSD only section, then you could quote something from the PTSD private diaries to the PTSD only forum, as those same people all have the same permissions, however; you would not ever take "anothers" content from a PTSD only access area and post it in a public area. Private Diaries: are exactly that, private, and the content contained within them remains private until such time as the author asks myself to move the thread to another area. Information posted in private can only be quoted elsewhere by the author, and anothers information is never to be breached without their authorisation. Access: simply the user given permission to any private area, is the only user to access that area. Give a another user access under your name or give out your password, and you will negate your membership here.
Now, the good stuff that waynes just sent me: Quote:
You pushed alright. Pushed her right into the hospital with your ulicensed treatment. You sir a loose cannon, and are about the most over inflated wind bag Ive seen. I see I managed to piss you off in your little world. Cant take it as construtive critisim like you expect every one else to do?. You seem to be able to dish it out but not take it? Marilyn told you we have no secrets. You see this as a brech of client dr. ethics? What about you not being a doctor? How ethical are your actions? Practising without a license? Is that legal in Aus.? I have most of your crap printed out. Thats pretty good proof of what you have been doing. All of these people you have been "treating need to know that you are not what you seem. You claim to be healed? Snake oil BUllshit. I wonder how many of these good folks have ended up in the same state as my best friend due to your unbridled stupidity. I think it would be best if you desolved this forum before you are responcible for someones death. Or someone takes you to task and sue the shit out of you.
Now you can ban us. If thats not reason enough I can go on. I dont want her on this site anyway.
Got balls enough to put this PM out on the site? I'd bet not!!!!
Done.
| So as I was given his permission to post this publicly, here is my reply, and would be the same reply to anyone who tries to negate a breach of privacy: Quote:
Hi Wayne,
Do I have balls to put your PM on the forum, not an issue, as that to me sounds like authorisation from yourself to post your private message. No problem, will add it to the thread of your privacy breach.
It seems to me that Marilyn seems to have a problem, that problem when she came to me was that she claimed, "nobody is willing to help me" as she so put it. I wonder why? Maybe it has to do with her view of herself? Maybe it has to do with her beliefs? Maybe it has to do with you? Not real sure, but you obviously have little to no idea of what is required to actually help someone with PTSD. Obviously what you and Marilyn believe, must all be wrong, because what your doing is not working, and what I am trying to do is not being accepted, instead your both pushing against what I know works and opting for you own outcome, which you have done the entire time still with no avail. You both just don't get it... your rejecting what people are trying to do in order to help Marilyn, instead you believe you know what is best for her, and she believes she knows what is best for her also... and if this is the case, I'm not sure what either of you where ever doing here, considering this forum is a support group, one where people who want to actually help themselves come in order to try different and unique ways in which are working, have worked, and continue to work on every single person that actually wants to open up and release themselves for once in their life, not bottle themselves up and hide behind themselves or their partner accusing everyone else, blameing everyone else for their lack of self.
If you want to take legal action, please I highly encourage you. I do not pose as a doctor, not therapist, and in actual fact I clearly outline upon this forum in many posts and the disclaimer of legal liability every member accepts by merely being here, that I am not qualified in any way, shape or form, and that people are here to try things that therapists simply do not understand, or more likely, are held back from using because of their qualifications, hence they can be held accountable for their actions, where here, the members make their own actions, not me, not another member towards another member, it is an online community for support, simple as that. People have already tried taking such communities and their owners to court, all without success to date because of the very nature said communities are devised and the way in which the Internet makes information so readily available. Please, I encourage you to waste your money and try, because it won't get you anywhere at all.
Maybe, just maybe, you and Marilyn might wake the hell up to yourself one day and actually listen to those very people who try and help, instead of rejecting their efforts. You cannot, will not get through healing trauma without getting ill, without likely ending up in hospital, without wanting to commit suicide. Do you really even understand what your dealing with when it comes to PTSD? I don't believe you do, you only try, yet have no real idea or concept of what it takes. Maybe you should ask someone here that has been in and out of hospital, wanted to kill themselves and more because of the healing process.... hell, I went through it and mine was from qualified therapists and doctors who simply weren't afraid of being sued because they knew what was best for me at the end of the day, not themselves. America is full of pussies because your Country is so messed up you all want to sue one another for every little thing that doesn't go your way... a pathetic excuse for existence if you ask me. Maybe if you and Marilyn adopted a more proactive stance as many of your fellow country people here have, and healed, or are healing, maybe you and Marilyn might get some type of handle on what your dealing with, standup and face your truths and stop bullshitting me and others with your nonsense and get to work on fixing your own self issues once and for all.
I am a no bullshit person, live with it, or not... I don't ask any person to come here, you come by choice. As I have said to Marilyn before, come back and see me if she wants to really heal, and yet I am still waiting for that to occur, because instead you stand over her path in order to heal. If anything, your stopping her from healing with your actions.... actions you have no idea of the consequences. There is a huge difference protecting someone you love opposed to supporting them through a time of pain that must be endured in order to be delt with once and for all. The going gets tough, and you stand in her way and she allows you. What a great team you are, suited I believe, because you both want to wallow in self pity and misery instead of getting tough and fixing the damn problem.
Goodluck with your futures, and I hope one day you both see where you have gone wrong, and maybe, just maybe, you might step aside and let someone actually help Marilyn, pain included, and not step in the way of progress that must be made for her to get past her pain and suffering.
Anthony.
| Damn, I should have also added that the legal liability disclaimer also stated that every other member here, qualified or not, poses in an unofficial manner upon this forum with their advice or experience. Forgot that bit... otherwise we could all be sued for giving our opinions, advice or experience. What a great world that would be. Not many successful cases of that going around, and I have seen enought to date, still with little avail attempting to stop people shareing their opinions, thoughts, experience and advice online. The power of the WWW basically.... if that shit worked, being you just take everyone to court for running any sort of community support group, none would exist, because whinging, whining f*cks would get their way and shut them down.
Hey, what do I know... I've just the silly dick who goes to concerts with 50,000 people, goes shopping in crowded centers, has a life within control, but I have no idea what I'm doing. Do i claim to be healed from PTSD? Well, if healed is to the point where I can live within limits and bounds of reduced stress and participate in the basics of life without dieing or killing myself, then yes, I would be healed.
If healed means cured, then no, I am not healed, because last I looked PTSD was incurable, that means the problem is with us for life, which means if we put ourselves in stress's way, we will get affected more than a person without PTSD, will get symptoms as a result, will get ill.... but if we no longer live in fear of our past and learn how to manage our present, then we can participate in lifes basics and actually live once again, not hide in our houses, ignore people and dismiss life itself.
Interesting theories though waynes... and would love to hear your input. |