Not sure what she donated to the forum... she never "paid me" though, and not sure how exactly she would construed making a donation as paid therapy either... which she has eluded to myself previously, ie. her statement to myself, "I have donated to this forum, you owe me your time", where my reply was something along the lines off, "bite me, I don't think so". People donate here to help the overall forum and its direction forward, not for my time. I am not a therapist, hence I do not charge for any opinions or discussion.