The healing itself solely depends on our self. Nobody can make us heal if we are not willing to it or have the sincere heart to it, be it which ever method one is using. Without proper understanding what one is doing and the whole process involved will not get one anywhere. Others can only share, guide, support and help so much, still we our self have to make the decision, to response or to ignore or to take action. Only we our self can decide whether willing to change for better or remain as one prefers or find another better way.

Nobody can force us to do anything beyond our own comfort or limit, be it here or elsewhere. I strongly believed every final decision and action is our own accord. Others can say so much but we still have the choice whether to listen, to agree, to ignore or to response to them. We do have a choice.