The biggest problem I have with this situation is that we were together from January and for her to end the relationship in phone text messages is so cold, but it fits into this whole PTSD thing. I have hoped she would pick up the phone and call me, an email, anything but she hasn't been in touch with me at all. How long should I wait before contacting her? It's been over a week since we last talked and I want her to have time to try to figure out her issues, but without thinking I forgot about her.