Herc, I am guessing you can meet a wierdo anywhere. But, I just don't like the bar scene and rarely does anything good come from it. Church, Library or hobby location is more by chance, not a meat market setting, and you have a better chance of meeting quality. IMOH. That is a shame that happened to you, but...I bet your mom feels badly. (Theresa shakes her head) what is the world coming to.