I banned both Marilyn and Wayne for the behind the scenes events. Wayne is what caused the ban on both, not Marilyn. Marilyn is ill, she just needs to come out of denial and accept aspects of life, she must accept criticism and be open to throwing ideas around, instead of running and hiding if she doesn't like something being said. If its wrong, it only takes a simple reply to correct a comment or statement, no major issue really.
I banned them both though for Waynes actions primarily, however; seen as though she allowed Wayne into private areas under her username, I banned Marilyn also. That is my doing for anyone who wants to know.
I honestly hope that Marilyn one day accepts the help she so much needs, and that Wayne steps the hell out of the process and just supports her, instead of getting directly involved with the process that is painful, is hurtful, and without question will cause extreme symptoms, hospitalization and likely suicidal ideation. Hell, when PTSD is uncontrolled we all have suicidal ideation at some point, if not constantly. Nothing new there, just an increase in what we already have. The simple facts during the healing process is whether you want to live or die though. Every sufferers choice. |