Thanks Anthony I suppose all I can do is tread lightly as we are arguing a lot at the moment. I am still recovering after the op and I cant help to much at the moment I think I just need to pull my head in and give it time. But keep an eye on him until I am capable of helping out.
Its weird you know when I became sick out of the blue in March he was brilliant you couldnt have asked for any more loving and support.
Now he doesnt even ask how I feel any more its seems to be its starting to go back to him being centred on himself like it was before?
Jen