Quote:
Originally Posted by wildfirewildone  He came home one day [approx. age 15] from school and sat down and said how much he appreciated me spending time with him as he had noticed that many parents of his peers only bought that whatever they desired but never spent time with them....That is such a warm memory!!! |
What a wonderful memory for you, wildfire! Those moments certainly are extremely precious. It's so very gratifying when children appreciate one's efforts. Sometimes it takes years to see that appreciation, but it's well worth it in the end. Your son sounds like a wonderful man and you have every reason to feel blessed and be proud of him. I know I would if he were mine.
Quote:
|
Originally Posted by wildfirewildone I have soooo wanted to be a foster mom but because of my mental health background I won't be allowed to do that....It makes my heart very sad at times...I know you are very aware of the importance of parenting kids that don't have the love and support from their biological parents.... |
I can see where that would be frustrating for you. And is quite ironic, isn't it, considering not only the shortage of foster parents, but also the sheer number of foster parents who are really quite dreadful. Just because one does not have a diagnosed mental illness, does not mean one is a suitable foster parent. Really Jim and I have been shocked by some of the people who have been allowed to be foster parents, it is both astonishing and sad. How they ever passed their reviews is beyond us. Yet more sincere persons like yourself are passed up.
You are welcome to visit our Bed & Breakfast, as is everyone else here who wishes - however, please remember it is still in the planning stages and not operational as of yet! Seems we must inform you all when it is up and running. And perhaps we should start taking reservations now! :tongue: