Bad situation for you no doubt Jen. Despise treading lightly myself. And. PTSD or not, some of us males can be stubborn re: helping with household tasks or caring for others. Myself, must admit, hate to do anything domestic. Always relieved when the wife is well again after being ill. However. Not an excuse by any means. Hope everything sorts itself out soon. Continue to take care of yourself best you can.

Jim.