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Originally Posted by anthony  Spending is a distraction Jen, its another method in which to hide symptoms, the same as alcohol, drugs, workaholism... spending is just another on the list, then the money runs out, so they do illegal things to get more money, more depressed, hide it more and do more, just like a gambler basically. Its a habit to distract and avoid life itself. |
Thank you Anthony you are the first person that has ever said that to me!
I really didnt think of spending as being a distraction! I suppose there is no thought of the consequences of what can happen to a marriage or a business when the money gets tight. This is where a lot of our arguments are coming from because I can see what will happen and it is a worry!
Jen