Never heard of the troll expression before - I know 'real life' trolls too!

I agree - some don't want to get better, and those will just go on being happily miserable. I was going to ponder over what this person might have meant through their wave of anger, but then I realised there is no way I would sign up to a PTSD forum where I was asking for help and support as "love2hate". When I signed up I actually agonised over what to call myself, because I wanted it to be real to me. I couldn't think of anything, so I just came as me and my real name (imagination ****wit!). Naming yourself "love2hate" is never going to give a good impression. There is something boasting in that which I think says enough about a person's interest not being in getting better - but only in pushing fight after fight to fuel their own hate/anger/sense of power/control.

Help the people who need, want and deserve the help. Those who don't won't benefit anyway. Glad the troll was banned, I don't like that kind of negative presence.