Mine has progressively changed during my journey to knowing how to handle this beast a whole lot better, though I must say I have been through the entire range above, except the "never" aspect, as it always has some impact, more rare than anything, but "never" is not possible IMHO. I started at constant when uncontrolled, and can safely say that I have noticed how my attitude changed to my children and partners as I have progressed.

I guess the real issue though, is the pain still lingers in some aspects, more than maybe should be present, but its still present to a degree.