Angel.

You call it your gut. Risking phyc evaluation,. I call it "my little voice" Any time I have ignored my little voice that says "AH????" I've regretted it. There is something deeply ingrained in us as part of our survival instinct. We do, however; opt to ignore this feeling.

Since starting therapy--although not currently going--the most important thing I've learned is to listen to my little voice. IT IS NEVER WRONG!!!!

We know, as women, we can't trust our emotions when love enters the scene. I'm proud of you for responding to your gut this time. Keep up the good work and may I share my mantra "If I get the urge for a man in my life, I'll just get another cat" Enjoy your life, smile and keep up the good work HERC