My psychiatrist suggests that I come to grips that this relationship is over and focus on dealing with the grief, depression and anxiety it has caused. She hasn't contacted me in close to 2 weeks, so I have to accept reality. It kills me that she is hurting, but like the shrink says, if she doesn't want you in her life and she wants to be apart, you can't force otherwise. So unless she realizes she made a mistake, I am trying my best to live my life.