Thanks Anthony, I'm glad I'm on the right track and relieved you said that because I really wasn't sure what else I could be doing at this point! I've been working hard at everything, basically just dealing with things as they come up, like going to my Dad's grave for example. I wasn't sure if that was the right way of going about things... I thought maybe I should have some organized method, but it has been working so far. My social skills, those definitely need a lot of improvement, my self-esteem too, so I will try to set some goals for myself in those areas. Thanks again for doing this it's been an eye opener for me to see how much progress I've made.