As veiled said Evie. This topic is a legitimate topic, one which can and should be discussed, however; it is simply veered slightly to be used as a focus in relation to a persons trauma, which should always be kept uniquely from any other aspect of this forum.

I do not base this forum on my trauma, as an instant example, so you don't see camouflage and military all over this forum, which would personalise it to my trauma. Same thing with gender orientation in regard to relating to one's trauma, it won't happen, politically correct or not, won't happen. Trauma remains unique to each person.

The question you raised was done so not in relation to your trauma, and was a question of concern, which was clearly answered. Now however, a person wanting such action because it is related to "their" trauma believes it should occur. No longer is the topic independent of trauma, but not personal for a stamp of personal approval onto the forum. If I allowed that, then I should have removed the logo long ago, maybe stamped some camouflage round, guns to suit others, maybe rapist being strung up and hung to suit others, etc etc....

You did nothing wrong Evie, and I think we all appreciate independent questions and conversation here.