Husband supports if I tell him what I want, when I want it, how I want it from him. My trauma is so alien to him that I really have to explain it to him in simple terms; he did not grow up the way I did and his military experience was wonderful. Mine was full of sexual harassment, sexual trauma, war, more PTSD and bad memories. Life now with him is safe and healing. He is supportive, bless his heart, but he's not the mind reader I wish he were.