I am some what in the same boat that you are Jessica as far as struggling to get some one I love to get counseling he does go sometimes but openly admits to me that he pretty much just sits there and tells the counselor where to get off cause she can't help him. WHICH IS HEART BREAKING. I have known him for about 2 years and I love him dearly I have had some down right bottom can't go down any further moments with him and but my all into and got stuck. I am still there for him all the time but you do have to balance yourself and him more focusing on staying strong for the both of you. I know its hard so if you need anyone to talk to about, private message me... I will keep you in my prayers hoping that you and yours will find strength.

~Kate

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