I do truly feel for you both, let alone what is felt for Evie having to go through this. I don't know personally, but I have a good imagination from pain I have experienced in the past. If Jim was holding her down, doesn't take much to guess. Again, you both know I am all ears for you offline when needed, so if you just want to yell at someone, you know my email. I won't get cranky, honest :)
People always look towards the person enduring pain, yet they often forget those who feel just as much in other aspects, ie. the carers. I can imagine what it would be like for you both in relation to feeling helplessness, being a parent myself and having my kids hurt seriously before. Logan has had more stitches than I think I have... and he did all that before 12. I guess as a parent I worked out why my parents had grey hair so early in life, with seven off us kids near killing ourselves, who wouldn't have grey hair.
You know you both have my support and understanding, though I do not obviously have the experience off caring for someone through cancer, that I can only guess. Hopefully I will never experience it myself. Please take care of yourselves during this, though i guess you both would have that down to a fine art nowadays? Just know I think your both amazing people... and I truly mean that from the heart, you are a true inspiration to humanity the way in which you handle everything that has gone on with your lives. Thank you. I believe the pleasure is certainly all mine since meeting you both, having you both here. |