Thanks for the post.

I have learned to grow a thick skin. Ignore comments from her that are not what she would normally say. Most times she calls me the next morning to appolize for what was said. Or ask me how bad it was the night before.

Yes she is in treatment with meds and seeing a counselor. Plus is educated in all the issues on PTSD. I told her she needs to tell the counselor about the closeness problems intamacy etc.

The kids are in there teens. So Iam taking up some of the duties with that also.

Try to fix it, that hit home. I am just try to be understanding and supportive.