I do understand your feelings Alienne, and it is exceedingly mature and thoughtful of you to think of your husband's feelings. That being said however, I started this thread regarding the private forum, not the public one. This public forum actually has a fair bit of activity, it is the private section that is very quiet, although it has shown some signs of life lately. However it is still much less active than this public area.

One thing I personally enjoy in the public area is that I am able to receive opinions and feedback from PTSD sufferers, as they may post freely in here. I have found the experience of others with PTSD very helpful in my dealings with Evie. There are things my husband and I learn from the sufferers that we could not possibly learn from other carers, and we are most grateful for their input.