Hi Jen

If I am reading what you wrote correctly, it sounds like you are perhaps feeling a little resentful that Hubby is staying in bed yet you still have to get up and go to work.

I often have to get up at 5am in the morning and get a lot less sleep than Anthony and some times when I'm tired and crabby I feel a little ripped off about it. I then try and remind myself that in comparison to what he must have to deal with in his head every day my life is pretty good even if it is a few hours less sleep. More importantly to me is that I am at least grateful that he is there an in our bed so once again, if that is the worst I have to put up with then life isn't that bad.

At the same time I think it is also important to note that if Anthony was just being a lazy bum and playing me for a fool by staying in bed I would not be accepting of it.