I also sometimes don't eat, usually dinner, and I'm not sure why. Is it that I'm too tired to do anything about it? Do I not want to clean the dishes? Or is my mind so confuddled by everything around me that I forget? I don't know...

As far as the inspection goes, geez...some people are really out on power trips, aren't they? Who is she to judge you and/or your housekeeping skills? What difference does it make? Does she also judge everyone else's hk skills as well or is she just targeting you? If whether or not you get to move to a new place depends on her judgement of your skills, then it should be the requirement for all the people. Sounds like discrimination to me. After all, wouldn't it be really easy for her to knit-pick and find something that she doesn't like?

Good luck with it, if it hasn't happened already. If we lived closer together I'd come over and help you!

Let us know how it goes...