When my wife and I hit rock bottom in our relationship she was convinced that cheating on me was her ticket out. She wanted to put the decision on me. But I did not let her. I found my fix and did what I needed to do to be a better husband. It has been a complete 180 for her and her attitude towards our marriage. She of course is still suffering from her ptsd, but she is no longer degrading me. I treat her like a queen even when I don't think she deserves it. But she will always deserve my love. When our marriage was on the brink of divorce, it was only then that we were able to grasp how powerful ptsd is. I encourage you to always have an optimistic perspective, and that is very hard to do. For me I have to constantly look at what lessons can be learned and what actions I can do to show my wife that she has someone that will be there for her always. I fairly new also. I wish you good luck.

The storm will pass, and when it does the sunshine will feel magnificent.