Kathy,

I'm so sorry to hear about this very, very difficult episode. I can certainly understand how you and Jim felt re. the need to disclose. I'm also so sorry to hear about its effect on Evie. Yet, as Wendy said, we do what we think is best at the time, with our human imperfections. You two made the best decision you could and with input you gathered from trusted, informed others. I'm praying it all works out to the good, believing that God (or Whomever) draws straight with our crooked lines.

Hodge