Thanks Hodge,I really appreciate the encouragement.I think you're 100% right and it's next to impossible to try and unravel this thing on your own.Also there has been a benefit to going it alone for the last three years in that when the time ultimately comes and I've sought-ed all my issues I'll be able to go it alone and do all right.For now I still have some work to do and just yesterday decided to take the plunge and try another therapist,it's a bit nerve wracking but I'm mainly excited at the prospect of moving on after being stuck for awhile now.Coincadently today I had a call about possibly being able to change my living situation which is less than ideal and a cotributing factor,fingers crossed.Thanks again Hodge for the encouragement I really appreciate it.
Thanks also Anthony for the welcome.I've been reading some of the forums it seems through your generosity of time and efforts you've helped a lot of people.That must be really satisfying in an age where not many people care for to many others outside of themselves.Maybe that's to harsh a generalisation because there's obviously a lot of caring people on this site and I consider myself to be caring person.I think as people become marginalised in society(that's society as a whole,just seems to be the way at the moment)it's harder for people to find an avenue or venue to express that softer side safely.In that I mean that people seem to mistake kindness for weakness out there in the world and try to take advantage which is unfortunate.I think if people on an individual basis become more caring and act on it that's the only way the world is going to change for the better.Getting on this site and having a read is what gave me the impetus to find a new therapist an try and get going again so coming here has already been worth my while.Thanks again.See Ya, Socrates.