I think you made a smart move veiled, and I think your husband probably has had enough for one day after all that. If your so tense and nervous, fearful even of telling him things, wait a few days until you are also a little better from your last session, and talk with him then, when you are both more relaxed and have more time to talk without interruption. Your next session aftermath will be similar, if not sometime worse than what you are suffering now... but they get better and better as you go through them.

Veiled, I just want to say... CONGRATULATIONS for do such a good job with yourself and getting into trauma therapy. It is a huge move for anyone to take with fear of their past... you have stepped past that fear just to get into trauma therapy... well done, and honestly, you are doing great and your after affects are normal. Keep up the great work, and soon you will find yourself lighter than ever, sleeping better, no nightmares, no flashbacks, nothing at all in actual fact to be fearful from... great work.