If you don't feel strong enough to support him and go through some very tough times in the near future.. then DON"T! Don't go back to him just becouse you feel you should... if you love him and want to be with him after he has taken steps to get better then great! but if you feel you need the time and space to recover yourself then go with that gut feeling! You can't help him if your not emotionally able to deal with issues that will come up. Just my imput! am sure others will have lots more to say too!! lol